【ENG】FULL | EP 1-11: 王珏邀约王乐晨失败，人气男王乐晨吐露自己自卑！ |《心动的信号 第8季》Heart Signal S8
Let’s get started. I’m so hungry. This spicy hotpot is really delicious. Has Wang Lechen not come back yet? No, he has n’t come back yet. I decided to walk the dog today because I’ve never had a dog, so I watched you guys walk for two days. It’s my turn today. Is she waiting for Wang Lechen to walk the dog? Yes, you’re finally back. Why do I feel like I ‘m “walking” every day? Where’s Wang Lechen? Hello , hello . Just lick him. You don’t want to eat it again . She should want to ask him to walk the dog. She ‘s still thinking about how to ask him to do it openly. Can we eat it like this? Yes , but what if it doesn’t eat it ? She’s nervous . Come on, I want to wait for you to walk the dog. I want to wait for you to walk the dog actively. He didn’t hear it clearly. Wasn’t it the one you just walked? Wasn’t it? Yes , but we think you might not be back. He really did n’t seem to hear it clearly. He really didn’t hear it clearly. It seemed like he missed something . Her invitation failed. He didn’t hear it clearly. Did he think she was chatting with him? Because the girl took the initiative to express this matter, I was still a little unsure how to say it, but I still felt that even if I didn’t hear clearly, I could ask back. Yes, I think Wang Lechen might not have thought about that. Maybe he was thinking that since we were walking the dog , was it over? But I think it’s a pity to go to the trash. Let’s go to take out the trash and try to scam someone. Can you work on the computer? Yes, can you help me with the computer ? Wait a moment . Duoduo (Ke Ailin) was very direct. Do you want to move over? I also took the computer. I need to go upstairs to deal with some data . The three girls, Wang Jue, should go for the last time. Yes, I really should ask one last time. After the invitation, if it doesn’t work, don’t invite again. Let me see if there are any garbage bags left. I think it should be fine. There are some left, so I can pour them there without leaking . Okay , there’s a place to throw it. Chenchen (Wang Lechen) didn’t notice her . It’s even harder to speak with someone like that. I was just about to get something from the car. Have they all gone back? No, no one has gone back . Do you have a double day off? Double day off. This isn’t trash. This is my computer. I ‘m sorry, this is yours. My pillow. Hello, everyone. I really can’t open my mouth because there’s someone next to me. We did do some charity work before, and we’re still participating in our teaching foundation. For example, there are sanitary napkins for female students , and some orphans . That’s great. It’s also quite cute next to them, but it seems like Chenchen (Wang Lechen) didn’t notice at all. The boots are too long. She’s been trying very hard to be around him . Oh, right? Have they all gone back? Duoduo (Ke Ailin) Are they not here? They are over there. Then why did you come here alone? I don’t miss you. I don’t know anything . I need to digest my food . Okay, I’ll go back and put my things away first . She really feels a little pity (for her). I feel sorry for her. Take a break. Why are you so quiet today? You can’t keep on igniting. He doesn’t seem to be in a good mood. Is there something on your mind? Can you tell me ? No, I just sometimes want to be alone. I understand. Do you need to socialize a lot at work ? Yes, you can imagine. I used to be a person who couldn’t talk at all . Really, my first impression of you was that you were both introverted and extroverted. But I didn’t expect that you really gave me an outgoing feeling. I couldn’t imagine it at all, right? So your How are my family relationships? I think my parents are pretty good and I envy them. I think it ‘s because they were both first lovers and then later on, my parents had a healthier influence on my outlook on love. Actually, I think I’m an extremely idealist when it comes to love . What about your family and Ke Ailin’s family ? She also said on the first day that her parents have a super good relationship . Your parents are the kind that have always been in love. Actually, I’m a bit pessimistic. Is it a problem with your original family? You are like me,
and you are like me in this aspect (positive guidance from the family). In fact, there is absolutely no such thing because of my family. This is definitely related to my original family. I’m actually a very low-self-esteem person, extremely low- self-esteem. Deep down, I don’t know the specific reason . I’m still trying to figure it out, but I don’t know why this inferiority complex or feeling of unworthiness is so strong in me . I just keep trying to comfort myself. You have to comfort yourself. That means you should understand psychology. Actually, after understanding psychology, you can follow the clues and find some reasons . So, what do you think of your past emotional experiences? I won’t ask about the details. Do you think you are satisfied with them overall ? I’m very dissatisfied. I was extremely self -conscious and withdrawn in the past two years. Do you think you will still be self-conscious about this kind of thing now ? I can’t say for sure. I think you might still be because I’ve experienced some of these problems. 我会一直在的 English: I can deal with it , but there are still many unknown issues , right? I understand what you mean. I think I may have just found the wrong direction . Indeed , I think you have exaggerated it and said it is not worth mentioning. I think this sharing is very sincere and timely. It is very sincere, timely and necessary. Because in fact, the Wang Lechen we have seen before may have many people ‘s choices for him , and he is also trying hard to express himself, but he does not know that in this process he will have this feeling of unworthiness . I don’t know if everyone will have this feeling or how to reconcile this matter. I think I used to have inferiority complex , and I remember that when people said I was good, I really felt that you were polite to me. I would subconsciously magnify my shortcomings and it would be difficult for you to see your strengths. It was really over the years that I realized how important it is to love yourself. In fact, if a person has not experienced being loved and accepted, it is difficult for him to learn to love himself. Including after listening to what they said just now, I can understand Xiao Jiao (Jiao Zhiheng) ‘s way of pursuing girls. Because he lives in a very happy family , he has extreme trust in love , or he believes in love very much and yearns to see his parents. Because of this kind of relationship , he will try his best to love someone and give everything he has , even if he gets hurt. But you can feel that Wang Lechen’s parents didn’t pay enough attention to him when he was a child, so this is what he brought from his childhood. For example, he has a low sense of self-identity and always feels that he doesn’t deserve these things. I think it may be because he cares about others . I think caring is one reason. Because of caring , he will feel inferior and feel that everything about him is not good enough. How can a person dispel his sense of unworthiness? The most fundamental way is to establish an objective understanding of yourself. You know where you are not good and you also know where you are good. When you can believe that this is an objective value evaluation of yourself, you will actually become truly confident. People who don’t understand themselves cannot build true self-confidence. On the other hand, I also think that there is no need to exaggerate this so-called feeling that there is a problem. Nowadays, people like to think that I have this problem and that problem. This is the feeling of youth. You will no longer have this feeling when you grow up. Because when you are young and your heart is moved, you will have this inferiority complex. In fact, it is a very beautiful thing. I actually like what she said about objectivity . I have a My own experience, first of all, I think we should not glorify others. Rather than saying there is a gap between people, I think I would rather understand it as a difference . The gap is a fact. It has the distinction of high and low, good and bad in fact. But the difference actually emphasizes the different part. In a healthy and long-term relationship, this feeling will definitely not make you always feel unworthy. When you are in a relationship and feel that you are worthless for a long time, then I think there is a problem with the relationship , not with you. So sometimes don’t reflect on yourself too much and don’t glorify others too much . In the end, I still want to say that it is still better to love yourself , love yourself, and then recognize and accept yourself. Only after loving yourself can you have a healthy love. First there is self, then there is love. This must be it. In fact, I can share a method. It is not only about loving yourself , but also in interpersonal relationships. It is a point that I have always used. Start with love rather than fear. When I do something, I am afraid that I will not be recognized by others , so I work hard, and I make myself better and feel happy. The results may be the same , but the way of thinking is completely different. Or between lovers , for example, when I send a message to her, I don’t want her to worry about me . I want to share my things with her . This is based on love , but I’m afraid that if I don’t send it to her, she might get angry with me again, which would be troublesome . So I might as well send it. This is based on fear. I don’t know if you can understand this point , but it applies to yourself as well as others. As long as you start from this starting point, you can start from love instead of fear. I think what we are actually discussing is the troubles of growing up. This growth is about us all having topics to overcome at every age . Just like I saw a sentence before, which said that except for physical pain, all other pain is self-inflicted. I also have a very important thing to say to the audience , which is that you don’t need to solve your own problems before starting a relationship. Although many people now have this view, they think that you can only have a good relationship if you solve yourself first, but I strongly oppose this view . Sometimes there are problems that you can’t solve by yourself, and you carry them with you. Maybe you meet another person in your relationship who can heal you and change you. Just don’t wait until I am able to start again. You can start at any time. All arrangements are the best arrangements.