【#王琳 CUT】原生家庭创伤？王琳不停与好友聚会充实生活 | 姐姐当家 特辑 | HER PRIME | iQIYI慢综艺
Director Wang Lin Come in. It’s fine, come in. Wang Lin This is my son’s room. Wang Lin He doesn’t come back much. He only stayed for 5 days. Wang Lin But I feel I still want to make Wang Lin his room really nice. There’s another space upstairs. Wang Lin This is where he studies and such. Yes. Upstairs is where he keeps his clothes, Wang Lin his closet and such. When he was very little. Yes, when he was a child. Wang Lin Wang Lin This room is my son’s room. Whether you’re here or not. Wang Lin I always keep a room for you. Of course. Hu Xuehua Absolutely. This will always be your home. Wang Lin It needs to feel like home. Ying Huadong This can be moved to the side. I want him to feel Wang Lin that no matter where he is, Mom is always waiting for him to come home. Wang Lin No matter where he is. Wang Lin Mom is always waiting for him. Do you really need him now? Not really. Wang Lin Actually, I do need him. Wang Lin But I don’t want to say I need him, because he’s my only family. Wang Lin How could anyone not need family? Hello. Wang Lin I’m going to Room 1*** in Building 5. What’s your relationship to her, are you family? Daughter, family, yes. Wang Lin One visitor for Room 1*** in Building 5. Got it. My mother has been living here for Wang Lin 7 years now. Wang Lin But the environment here Wang Lin is very good for elderly people. How often do you visit? About every two weeks. Wang Lin But when I’m busy, it might be once a month. Wang Lin Wang Lin You’re here. Ma Taoshan I came to see you. Wang Lin. Okay. Ma Taoshan. Thank you. Thanks. Ma Taoshan. Uncle Hua. Wang Lin. How are you doing? Wang Lin. Please sit down, don’t get up. It’s alright. Wang Lin. Please sit. Uncle Hua. Important guest. No, you sit. Wang Lin. Uncle Hua. Important guest. Uncle Hua, please sit. Wang Lin. Uncle Hua. Important guest. After my father passed away, Wang Lin. when my mother was walking alone, she met Uncle Hua. Wang Lin. Then they tried to bring them together, that’s how it happened. Wang Lin. Do you have any good memories from your childhood? No. Wang Lin. None at all. No. Wang Lin. In my childhood, I grew up with my grandparents and my uncle. Wang Lin. When I was 5 years old, I met my father for the first time. Wang Lin. Then when I was 7 and returned home, it was a 21-square-meter apartment. Wang Lin. My mother and my brother Wang Lin. slept on the bed inside. I slept on a leatherette sofa. Wang Lin. I never slept in a bed my entire childhood. Wang Lin. Until I entered Shanghai Theatre Academy, and then returned home. Wang Lin. I had neither a bed nor a place to put my clothes. Wang Lin. So I thought to myself, I won’t come back. Wang Lin. That’s why until today, the reason I make my son’s room Wang Lin. so nice and comfortable, is because I hope Wang Lin. that whenever he can come back, there’s a home waiting for him. Wang Lin. I always tell my son, I say, ‘Why does Mom always stay with you?’ Wang Lin I say it’s because when someone asks in the future what Wang Nuo was like at 5, Wang Lin what he was like at 7, I’ll be able to tell them everything. Wang Lin I don’t want to be like my mom, Wang Lin when people ask what you were like at 2, and my mom would look at my uncle, Wang Lin saying ‘I don’t know.’ Wang Lin How is Wang Nuo doing now? Ma Taoshan Does he have a girlfriend? I didn’t ask. Wang Lin You didn’t ask? Ma Taoshan I didn’t ask. Wang Lin What about your brother? I don’t have a bond with my brother. Wang Lin When I was 7 and he was 6, that’s when I first have memories of him. Wang Lin Because he stayed with my parents. Wang Lin Because I lived with my grandparents. Wang Lin Although after I started making money, I became like Wang Lin half a mother to him, buying him things and such. Wang Lin But he doesn’t Wang Lin take care of our parents. I’m going on the 16th Wang Lin to visit Wang Nuo. Then I’ll fly back and come see you. Wang Lin So I’ll be very busy in June. I’ve been extremely busy lately too. Wang Lin I see you’re always busy. Ma Taoshan Take care of yourself. When I was 7 years old Wang Lin lived with my mom, and at 17, I started going out all the time. Wang Lin basically lived together for 10 years. Later, after my second divorce, Wang Lin I brought them to live with me, for another 10 years. Wang Lin and my mother’s behavior was something I couldn’t stand. Wang Lin I’d come home late at night, and she’d tell me she had high blood pressure. Wang Lin I had to take her to the hospital, and after I took her for an examination, Wang Lin the doctor said, ‘You just need to take blood pressure medication.’ Lin ‘Because you already have blood pressure medication.’ Wang Lin Then we’d go back home. Lin I’d have to work early the next morning. Wang Lin Then a few days later when I returned, she’d say she was unwell again. Wang Lin ‘I have a stroke. Lin I’m dying.’ Wang Lin So back to the hospital again. Wang Lin After all the EEG scans were done and everything was completed, Lin the doctor said there was nothing wrong. Wang Lin ‘Just take some blood pressure medication,’ and there were many incidents like this. Wang Lin After all these incidents piled up, I became afraid. I was afraid I couldn’t handle them alone. Wang Lin So I went and chose a Wang Lin nursing home. Let me pour some water. Ma Taoshan What year did your father pass away? Six years ago. Wang Lin It’s a hereditary disease in our family. I have it now too. Wang Lin I can’t talk for too long, these muscles become weak. Wang Lin His father, who would be my grandfather whom I never met, Wang Lin Yes, also died from choking like this. Wang Lin He also died from choking, it’s hereditary in our family. Wang Lin I’ve followed exactly in my father’s footsteps, so that’s why… Wang Lin Perhaps I can see what my tomorrow will be like. Wang Lin That’s why I feel I need to be happy. I want to be happy. Wang Lin. Mom, I’m leaving now. Wang Lin. Take care of yourself, and call me when you can. Ma Taoshan. Uncle Hua, thank you for coming. No need to thank me, Uncle Hua. Wang Lin. Auntie, we’re leaving now. Wang Lin. If you need anything, just leave a message in the group chat. Wang Lin. Alright, I’ll message in the group if I need anything. Wang Lin. Bye-bye, take care. Ma Taoshan. I understand. Wang Lin. Bye-bye. Go inside. Wang Lin. Go in, be careful. Ma Taoshan. I know, bye-bye. Wang Lin. Wang Lin. I’m thinking, I still want to dance when I’m 80. Wang Lin. I want to dance until I’m old. Wang Lin. It’s good to be home. Wang Lin. Sometimes when I lie in bed, Wang Lin. I wonder, what if I passed away today. Wang Lin. What would happen to this house? It would be sealed up for a long time. Wang Lin. Or it would be sold right away. In the future, do you want to live with your children? That’s a good question. Wang Lin. I always thought Wang Lin. I would live with my children, and I’ve always told my son. Wang Lin. I said when you have children, you can go to work without worrying. Wang Lin. Mom will help take care of them, but recently I’ve started to waver. Wang Lin. I feel that Wang Lin. they might not need help with childcare. Wang Lin. If they ask me to help, Wang Lin. I would be very happy, because I am someone Wang Lin. who really enjoys taking care of others. If he tells me, Wang Lin. ‘Mom, could you please not disturb me too much,’ of course I would understand. Wang Lin. Let’s go. Wang Lin. When someone is by your side, you enjoy it. Wang Lin. Those days when someone is by your side. When no one is by your side. Wang Lin. What are you going to do? What will you do? Wang Lin. I enrich myself, so I try my best to keep Wang Lin. my life full. Sister Wang Lin. Darling. Wang Lin. Why are you always so beautiful? Tell me why? Wang Lin. Why always so beautiful? Wang Lin. Sister Dong, I’m really happy to see you, truly. Wang Lin. I used to go to every gathering, anywhere there were people, I’d be there. Wang Lin. Hao, when did you get back? I’ve been back for several days, came specially to see you. Thank you, Hao. Wang Lin. But after having a child, Wang Lin. I gradually went out less. Exactly. Wang Lin. I would always stick with my son. Wang Lin. Not really, it’s just when he was little, Wang Lin. I felt he needed me to be with him, so I hardly went anywhere. Wang Lin. But my child has grown up now. Wang Lin. I finally can do what I want to do. Wang Lin. I’m finally not controlled by others. Hello everyone. Our Sister Wang Lin. Hello. Wang Ying. Zhan Xiaonan is over there. Hello, Nannan. Wang Lin. I mainly wanted to see you, Zhan Xiaonan, it’s been too long. Zhan Xiaonan. If every day is fulfilling. Wang Lin. What does fulfillment bring? Fulfillment directly brings happiness. Wang Lin. I applaud you. This year, the two of us plan Wang Ying and I to go together in August to send our daughters there. Wang Ying’s My eldest daughter is starting college, and her daughter is starting high school. Wang Ying, after your child goes to high school, Wang Lin, what do you plan to do when you come back? I’m just like Zhan Xiaonan, she says I’m very busy. Wang Ying likes to do her own thing. Zhan Xiaonan: I’m really busy, I truly am very busy. Zhan Xiaonan: I feel like there aren’t enough hours in the day, after she leaves, I’ll take on more acting jobs. Zhan Xiaonan: I feel like now is a good time for me, because my daughter has grown up. Zhan Xiaonan: She can leave me and live her own life. Zhan Xiaonan: So I don’t need to do things for her sake anymore, to have any restrictions, right? Zhan Xiaonan: And let me tell you, my thinking is different from yours. Zhan Xiaonan: I’ve always believed that everyone is an independent individual. Zhan Xiaonan: Since she was 10 years old, I’ve felt that she is her own person, and I am mine. Zhan Xiaonan: At 13, or say 14, when she was rebellious. Zhan Xiaonan: The first couple of times, I was shocked by her behavior. Zhan Xiaonan: Wondering how she could talk back to me or whatever. Zhan Xiaonan: By the third time, I thought to myself, fine, that’s your life. Zhan Xiaonan: It’s not my business, I’m really good at shifting my perspective. Zhan Xiaonan: I said, alright, mom will remind you. Zhan Xiaonan: As a mother, I’ve done what I needed to do. Zhan Xiaonan Zhan Xiaonan is a friend I haven’t been in touch with for a long time. Wang Lin is from our school, an alumna. Yes. Wang Lin, she also raised her child on her own. Wang Lin. Wang Lin, it all hasn’t been easy. Wang Lin, but I think… Actually, life is hard for everyone. Wang Lin. Right. We don’t need to exaggerate Wang Lin. our own hardships. Yes, exactly. Right? Wang Lin. Yes. Everyone has their own path to walk. Right. Wang Lin. We don’t need to exaggerate Wang Lin. our own hardships. I don’t need to either. Wang Lin. Because if Wang Lin. I were to complain about life, Wang Lin. then how many people should be complaining about their lives? Wang Lin. Isn’t that right? Yes. So I shouldn’t complain, Wang Lin. because I’m already quite fortunate. Wang Lin. Mini. Wang Lin. Mini. Wang Lin. Are you asleep? Mini. Wang Lin. What’s wrong? Why aren’t you sleeping yet? Wang Lin. It’s so late, why aren’t you sleeping yet? Are you turning into Wang Lin. a grumpy old lady with a strange temper? Aren’t you, Mini? Wang Lin. Even old ladies need to control Wang Lin. their emotions. We two old ladies Wang Lin. should keep each other in check, Wang Lin. okay? You don’t get upset, and I won’t either. Wang Lin.