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Let’s go. Let’s go. Let’s talk about whose house we are going to today. Whose house are we going to today ? Let’s go to Huang Shengyi’s house. Okay , have you seen Sister Shengyi before ? I ‘ve seen her on TV. Coincidentally, I have too. I’ve seen the girl selling lollipops in the movie “Kung Fu” . I saw Sister Shengyi earlier. At that time, was it the Green Apple Paradise or the “Red Apple Paradise”? It turns out that the person living in the Red Apple House is you , Sister Shengyi’s house. Are we almost there? Are we there ? Hello, is there anyone here ? Let’s try pushing. Okay . Hello, hello. Hello, Sister Shengyi . Hello , Liangtian. This is your equipment, right? Don’t be scared by it. In fact, we won’t take so many things . Right , there will only be two or three cars. Welcome, please come in. Let’s see if there is anything unused at Sister Shengyi’s house. We can help sell it. It’s so clean to welcome guests. This TV is so big. This is the biggest TV I’ve ever seen. You can take this TV away. We can’t take this one. It’s obviously new. Yes, it’s new, Sister. Are you playing this piano? Now it’s mainly played by my son, my youngest son Anlin. He plays it for about an hour every day. What is this for ? This is this. Don’t you have to guide him on this music score ? When Anlin plays it, you are directing him. If you want to direct him, he will definitely cooperate with you. He is a very good actor , the kind who can cooperate with you. The second Jay Chou , so what does Anlin like to do besides playing the piano? He also likes painting. I like painting, right? What type of painting do you do? I am an abstract artist , and he is also an abstract artist. You look a lot like his son. Subtitle_TEXT_0201 I won’t take your place I took advantage of you. These are all trophies. You have so many trophies. By the way, if you are thirsty, just drink some water. Thank you , thank you, Sister Shengyi. The water that the fairy drinks will turn me into a fairy if I drink it. This board is whose schedule is this? We are asking, this is the schedule of my two children. This is Anlin’s , and this is Andy’s. They have a rough schedule from 3:30 after school until before going to bed at night. There is also online math , some Olympiad math , which are all online classes because math is actually quite easy to take online classes. Does he have time to rest? On Sundays and Saturdays, he will have some classes that are more like playing. For example, painting class is also a kind of rest. And taekwondo class is a class, but it is different from math, physics, and chemistry, which are academic classes . So that kind of class is more casual. Does he have to strictly follow this time? It just gives him a reference . There is no rigid rule, but it just gives you a reference standard. Anlin likes to play the piano and paint. What does Andy like? He likes sports. He likes hobbies like skiing and others. For sports like golf, it feels like one is good at literature and the other is good at martial arts, which are completely different for the two people. Do you use this board often? You use it often because some courses have some fine-tuning every week . If you use it frequently, we won’t take it away. This board is not valuable. The main thing is that the content on it is more correct. So where should I take you to start? Or go to the second floor first. On the second floor , because you have seen this course board, we just talked about drawing, so let’s draw. His piano is on the first floor and his paintings are on the second floor, right? Look, this is the illustration of “Das Kapital”. “Das Kapital ” also has illustrations. Yes , this may help you understand better. It is actually just looking at a picture and I will understand it. Sister , “Game Theory”. This was also on the previous show. ” Game Theory” is like this. Can you win an argument like this? “Game Theory” is the type of book I prefer because I like to read some psychology books . Psychology , and this “Red Book” is actually quite interesting. Let me show you this “Red Book”. It records his dreams and some hallucinations , so it is actually a very good supplement to psychology. So it is a book that combines art and psychology , MBTI. The personality test you are doing now is based on it. These are more like related theories. This is very interesting. “Abnormal Psychology” contains many real-life cases . You will analyze why he has such psychological motivations. Putting the two books together is a more complete combination of your inner and outer theories. Psychology is that appearance is determined by the mind. One is conscious and the other is unconscious. This (“Red Book”) is more like unconscious. You are like a person doing it. Don’t use me as an example. What kind of unconscious is he? What is he like? You can probably use these to deduce a rough model . Don’t you have this on Xianyu? We will find it on Xianyu in a while. It is the kind of psychological counselor. He has door-to-door service and door-to-door consultation. Let him do it and you will know what type you are. Break your fragile defense line. It’s really a little later. We can call it a good one. This is quite interesting. “The Book of Answers”. Make a wish. You have to let him do it himself, recite it silently, and open it by himself. Recite to yourself and see what kind of actor is good . Can Lao Ji become a legendary actor ? Related questions may appear. You may be a legend but not necessarily an actor. You may be an actor but not necessarily a legend. They always look down on me and say I am a fool. I try this. I have nothing good to say to you . Let me tell you, Brother Meng, play one . Can I become a crosstalk master ? Legend is not that you changed legend to magical. Can I become a magical crosstalk master ? How do you define magical? It is the ability to write very flying jokes . Subtitle_TEXT_0152 You should know that it is difficult to have too many or too few choices . You have too many choices. You can only choose between legendary and magical. I only see two words. It’s difficult. You come and I come and I come. Okay , can I become a legendary host ? Okay, let’s do this . Okay, Liang Tian, can you become a legendary host ? Come on, three, two, one, let ‘s go, sister, you gave me good luck. Wait a minute, try again. There is no such thing. You let it go and there is no second time. Okay, my life cannot be repeated. Okay, let’s take you up to have a look at the painting. Just now , Xiao Ji, you said it was abstract. This was painted by my son. This is too abstract, right? Then this painting was painted when he was four years old. This is his first painting. He painted such a big painting at the age of four. You see, there is a date on it , 2021. I know what the blue one is first . I guess I I guess it should be a spring evening with a touch of sunset and some grass by the lake. Is that what you mean? There is no such painting. He told me that he was painting the ocean . He was wild about colors. Subtitle_TEXT_0291 He would boldly express his thoughts on it. This painting by Matisse at the age of four won an award at the Sino-French exhibition. Children’s paintings are amazing. Is this the same? When was he painted this? This one should be a little bigger. That one is the first one. This might be when he was five or six years old . I also asked him about this painting. Think about it. It feels like camping . There is a kite in the sky and a small tent below . It seems to be like this. Come on, abstract art I don’t understand what this is. Sister, can you reveal it to me? He told me that he drew this picture of a little boy. He likes war weapons , such as guns , weapons and rockets. So you see, the world of children is also very bold. But when they are young, you must not restrict their thinking when drawing , especially before the age of nine. You should try to let them open their thinking and not let their creativity be affected. Because sometimes you will ask them to draw an apple or a banana very similar , but in fact, this has already constrained his imagination and creativity . He will go to Japan in July. He is in Yokohama. There are several art exhibitions there and they are invited to go, which is great. Awesome . We have come to the study area. Do they usually study together? There are two computers, one for each person. Everyone has his own desk. There is a trophy. Most of the friends are into music and painting. It’s really awesome. There are also champions here. This is the eldest one. He participated in the golf competition . He is the champion of Group D in the East China Region. He is so awesome at golf. This is Shi Mingxin . This is Shi Mingxin. Shi Mingxin has broken the dimensional wall a bit. Sister , because I know him, Shi Mingxin . The younger one is in the third grade. He has been studying until now. They have made a shallow Olympiad textbook, which is the shallow Olympiad textbook for mathematics . It is more suitable for this age group. Because our children are now in an international school The learning system is also different, so I give it to him as my “supplement”. Let’s take an example. International schools don’t teach math. This is the multiplication table. When they were young, they had it and they would tell you that a certain number times a certain number equals a certain number. It allows you to form your own logic in your mind. But I hope he can learn the multiplication table, so I posted the multiplication table here and here. He has to practice it every day. Come and do a problem. Challenge yourself with this math problem for grade three, grade two, and grade three. Do you dare? Do you want to do this? Do you dare? Grade two definitely doesn’t need to use your brain. It’s not that grade two is too easy. You’re bragging a little too early . It’s mainly because you can’t do the grade two problems yet , so don’t “live”. Here’s the most difficult one. Let’s do a simple counting shape. Let’s count the number of triangles. One, right ? Two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, eight, I think it’s eight. On the surface, it’s five. On the surface , it’s five. On the surface, it’s five. Then you combine them. They are a combination of six . They are combined like this. One is six. Then combine it like this . Seven. Then combine it like this. Ten, eight. How about ten? I feel a little dizzy. I didn’t have breakfast today. It’s not this question . Why do we have this kind of question ? This is a second-grade question. Right? This kind of question will definitely be deducted. How can it be deducted ? It’s not a triangle. Do n’t you look at the five? Five like this, six like this, seven and seven , right? Then start from here and go like this, eight like this, nine . Then how did you calculate nine? Then do it again . It’s not that you calculate so much. You are a big block. It’s not that you five . You put the surface one , two, three, four , and then the outside one is nine, right ? Five . Then where did the other four come from ? Where did the other four come from? Isn’t it the one inside? Five plus three doesn’t equal eight, right? You are not right. Then you calculated wrong. Then I really overestimated you. You overestimated me. Come on , look at me and let me solve the problem for you. Come and tell me the solution . Let me announce the correct answer. Come on, you said eight, right? I said nine . Just now you said ten. Let’s look at the fourth question of Lecture 16.
The fourth question of Lecture 16 is ten. I’m right . Which one did I miss ? Which one did I miss? I want to ask, did you see it? This is the strongest brain, you know, Liang Tian, how many points did you get in math when you got college? I got a total score for college entrance examination. Total score Five hundred and eighty is so high. To be honest, I am the first in Communication University. Subtitle_TEXT_0147 , but I am not good at math. I won’t tell you how many points you got in math. You are a liberal arts student, right? What kind of liberal arts student is this ? This is it . Isn’t it very simple? First of all, for this subtraction, you need to read the question first. You have to know what the question is. In the following formula, the three words “Xue Olympiad Mathematics” represent each of them. Calculate this first, and it will be simple. Your two numbers are the same . Think about it. There can be one, eleven, twenty-two , forty-four, the same number. This is difficult. This question is difficult , fifty- five, right? Fifty-five is five, and this is four. Then look at this . I see nine is three, which is not right. Teacher, I answered quickly. It is equal to eight. I know it is indeed eight. Why? You see this is eight , and then eighty-eight plus eight is equal to ninety-six. This is not a math problem, this is a brain teaser , right? This is logical thinking. This shallow abstruse is actually a mixture . It combines these things together, and some thinking subjects are also included. This question is very difficult , but actually this thing is quite good. It is possible that you will not feel that it is very helpful to you in the early stage . It helps , but you may have some extra credit questions when you reach a certain level or a certain period of time , and then you will find that you can do those extra credit questions , but it may not be helpful for most of the 90% of questions before the exams in some basic courses. At that time and stage, you will feel that what you have learned is useless, but after you learn it, you will find that it is useful for some big questions in the future , such as some extra credit questions and some of the last questions in the exam. I tell you, after reading this book, my interest in mathematics was rekindled. I am overusing my brain now. I really have some problems with my brain. Let’s take a short break. This is indeed a bit… You only did it for a few minutes , while children usually need an hour to do it. Children’s learning now is really similar to our time. They still play to relieve stress. For them, this is what they do at home. They play like this every day. They will play like this with each other. I tell you, if I had this thing when I was a child, I would be able to do it in middle school. To dominate is to take out this thing and you will think it is so fashionable and cool. People will follow you to play. When I ran like this, a group of people came behind me. This might be because of the child’s sense of belief that made me dress up like this. I was still thinking about my role, and I should do this and that , and it came naturally. Sure enough, the boy fell to the ground . No matter how old he is, he will walk like this. Let’s see where else my sister can take us around. Do you think there is anything we can take? No, I think we may have some gains in the basement. Yes , there are a lot of things in the basement that are not used now, which are thrown down there . By the way, we are at our main battlefield. Yes, here are some skiing and skiing equipment. I recognize this child. Don’t you like skiing and golf? They all have equipment for sports. This was used when they were very young. I guess they can’t use it now. They can’t use it , right? He
has grown taller and his board is not long enough. The eldest and the second child both have double boards and single boards. Double boards and single boards both play double boards and single boards because the younger one used to skate single boards, but now he has changed to double boards. The eldest has always been using double boards. This is professional skiing . For professional skiing, he is quite talented in this aspect, that is, the flag gate It’s the kind of speed that hits the flag. Have you seen that kind? I know it’s like this, right? That ‘s right , brother. You twisted it like this. You really can’t skate. It seems that this kind of board is no longer used, right? It’s no longer used. Then we can, can we sell it on Xianyu, right? This is OK . How old should he use it ? This should be when he is five years old . When I put it on the shelf for you later, I will edit it. It is probably suitable for skiing kids around five years old. And this is the golf club. Golf club, golf club, these are also very consumable because they are based on your height. All of them are for children. Is he growing? He’s taller, so his old one is no longer usable. He has the same problem with skis and golf clubs. Has he come up with this one? This one is also fine. He can’t use this club now because he has changed to a new one. This whole package is no longer usable. Yes, this package is no longer usable . But I ‘ve been through that competition with him. The East China champion you just saw was won with this club. Does he need to buy another one? Without
them, this one is no longer useful. I showed it to him specifically. It has already won a championship. Let it win another championship in someone else’s hands. Make the best use of it. This is also good. This is his. Can this one sit on it? These are boxes. He liked them both very much when he was a child. People will sit on this box to go to the airport because it can be sat on. At the airport, you can slide over, right? You won’t have to use that one and walk by yourself. What did I say? These two people will not let go of this kind of thing. Let’s go to the airport. They will not let go of this kind of thing . No, my legs are too long. Why do you sit on that short one ? My legs are too long. You sit on this one. This one is bigger. You chose a smaller one. You two should switch. Are they still sitting on this one now? Can you share this with us? It’s a bit embarrassing to sit on it now, right? Then let’s show everyone how sturdy this box is. Let’s take a picture of this. When we hang it up, we will say that a strong man can withstand it when sitting on it. Then let’s take out the ones that came out. The ones that came out are this snowboard . Golf bag, this is what we can share with friends on Xianyu. These are the champion golf clubs . I think this is not needed now, right? This thing is not needed in terms of size. And it has almost recovered now, so we can go. Let’s take a look. There is still half a layer below. This is the clothes I didn’t use much before. There are performance clothes. I came to the celebrity’s wardrobe. Welcome to the fashion wardrobe. There are really many high heels. Sister, you are also a centipede. How long have you not worn this shoe? It’s been a long time. Will you wear it again in the future ? This kind of shoes may be worn because sometimes there are some pairs, but I rarely wear this performance costume now . This is the one for the concert. No In the early days, I participated in many singing and dancing parties. At that time, I prepared the performance costumes by myself , and some of them were made in that era. But this one must be more than ten years old, yes, more than ten years old. These are more than ten years old. For example, this skirt is from my concert. This is a light yellow long skirt. This dress is also the costume I wore when I was filming “White Snake”. Sister, do you collect costumes ? This costume is really old, but the original color has faded. But this dress is quite meaningful and good . It has a stronger sense of the times. I still think that I should collect some things that everyone can really use. Okay, which sisters are willing to match the clothes and so on? I want to ask what kind of performance this costume is used for. This is not mine. This is my down jacket. It is the kind of life-saving down jacket that I made in Hengdian in the winter. This jacket is old. This jacket is about ten years old, at least (ten years). More than ten years, I think it should be fifteen or twenty years . It is different from the ones you buy because it is very thick and warm. And it is made to be comfortable and easy to wear. It is not a normal clothing style. It is just for filming . Let me take a look and try it. Is it okay ? Is it fashionable? Suddenly, it has a fashionable meaning. He is really a clothes rack. Old Ji, you are really good. Is this out? I took it. Old Ji bought it, right? Old Meng, come and I wear it. Old Meng has to try it. I wear it like a penguin. It is impossible for me to come. You try to walk on the runway. Come on, brother, walk on the runway. He is a little bit dressed in a bit vulgar . How handsome, Chow Yun-fat is here. Is it Brother Fat ? Which mountain makes money? This is pretty good-looking. Subtitle_TEXT_0416 Subtitle_TEXT_0419 Subtitle_TEXT_0420 Subtitle_TEXT_0421 This can also be worn for fishing What, big brother, but this one goes with this one. They didn’t say they were going to release it, but they said they could release it. You have to get them together. This women’s style and this one are together . It’s okay, I’ll just wear it like this. Listen to them. I don’t want to collect that women’s style. Why should I collect it? I’ll just collect this one. This one looks good . You can try La Vie en Rose. I’ll try La Vie en Rose. Try it. Sister Shengyi’s clothes are fashionable. Don’t say, don’t say, it matches with what I’m wearing today. It has a bit of Hong Kong flavor. Don’t say, it matches with my little gold chain. It has a bit of Y2K feeling. Really, three, two, one, go. Lao Ji can’t stop me. I will find a way to make a living . Fashionable, the whole body is good. Take another step back, take another step back, take another step back. The sky is wide and the sea is vast. See you. Do n’t bump into the mirror. Huang Shengyi’s clothes have sharp eyes. Let’s do this. We ‘ll take some of them first. We’ll just go up and take down the few pieces we took out just now , and then we’ll put them on the shelf first. You see, you picked this one again. You just finished saying this and put your hand here. Let’s pick a few pieces first. What do you care? I really think it looks good. It looks good. It looks good, so you keep using it to control me. Does it look good or not? Do you want to digest it yourself? I’m here to work. I’m helping the salesperson. Tell your friends right away that I’ll put it on the shelf right away. Please help me take a picture when the time comes . How about this? Let’s take some things to the next store and ask him if he wants to buy it. Let’s put it on the shelf. One, two, three. Don’t say this thing . This clothes looks good on him. I feel it can be sold at a very high price. I thought you said, “Don’t say this thing. It looks really good with clothes. ” Who are you talking about? She said she wanted to say that, and then she changed her words. And this Lao Ji, let me take a picture for you. Then you take a picture for me. Three , two, one , come again . Look at this model, this supermodel. Subtitle_TEXT_0027. This has been shot. My copy has been written. Okay, let me see how you write it. Listen to her copy . It’s really good. This children’s board lets your doll who loves skiing win at the starting line. And this little yellow lets your doll who is catching a plane become the most handsome guy at the airport. His life will always be smooth. Subtitle_TEX T_0050 Writing copy is very important. He has to learn so much. You didn’t read it carefully just now, right? I don’t understand English very well. Let me explain it to you. My way is that I want him to try it because self-motivation is very important. In fact, it is related to my own experience. When I was a child, my parents also sent me to many interest classes. Then I slowly found out which things I would stick to . For example, I like dancing very much . Later, I wanted to learn it by myself. I wanted to take stretching classes by myself. When no one forces you, you will also want to do things. This is self-motivation . When my eldest brother first started learning golf , he actually didn’t like this sport . But after learning it for a year, he found that learning golf has many benefits. Because golf is not just a physical training. You have to know which club to use and how much force to use to hit the position you want. There is also your emotion. Because the whole process of golf may take five or six How do you rebuild your confidence in the hours ? He later told me that it is also applicable in his life. He said that playing golf gradually made his emotions more stable . How old was he to say such things? He was thirteen years old and was able to understand these truths. I don’t think he can say such things at the age of thirteen. This ability will make you feel that in the process of taking care of children or raising them, you are also raising yourself again. That is for sure, because children are like a mirror. Some of their problems may also be your problems . I think in the process of being with them, I am also learning. You will be able to heal yourself better, and then you will know where the problem lies, and then adjust yourself. This process is the different perspectives you look at others and yourself. Brother Meng, you will face these soon. In fact, when I saw this blackboard , it was so complicated that I felt a little bit like , how can I make such a complicated and detailed plan? How old is your child ? My child is seven months old, it’s still early, isn’t it? He hasn’t been born yet. The baby hasn’t been born yet, and it’s been in my belly for seven months. I was actually a little nervous, right? Brother Meng, I was actually more happy than nervous. It’s okay . I don’t think there’s a standard model for raising a child. It’s possible that you will be more or less influenced by your past personal experiences. Are you a “chicken baby”? I think I’m quite a “chicken baby”. Many parents can’t control their children. It actually depends on their personality. Some people just like you to arrange things for them and they will execute them. Some children are more stubborn and have their own plans and ideas. In that case, you may have to respect their own personality. Didn’t we just say that we can call for door-to-door psychological counseling services? Let’s find one on Xianyu. I don’t think there should be any big problems. I don’t have any problem either. Generally, if you say “no problem”, you will have some problem. You will know if you have any problem by trying it. You can search for psychological game service on Xianyu . It is actually a kind of psychology experience. This is a bit too interesting, right? There is a master who graduated from the University of Missouri. Okay, can we consult each other? I have been feeling a bit bitter recently . What’s wrong with you ? I can’t explain it recently . Actually, I don’t have any psychological barriers. Many people are unaware of it. Listen to me. I am the kind of person who is unaware of it. In fact, many people abroad go for counseling regularly. It’s like a kind of care. Just like when you have a facial or skin care, if there is a problem, you have to relieve it first. That is a disease, not maintenance. Right, you have to go for treatment at this time. Okay , we have made an appointment with the doctor for the psychological game. Come quickly. I have a big disease in my heart now. I can’t even count it. Now the psychological game teacher is here. Teacher Li Man. Hello, Teacher Li Man. Hello. So beautiful , that’s me, right? I’m shameless. So beautiful. Thank you . So beautiful. Teacher, so pretty. Teacher, we don’t know how to play this . Let’s get to know each other first. We have some new ways to get to know each other. Now I want everyone in this group to call each other a name that you feel comfortable being called. My name is Li Man, and then you can call me this, Minions, Minions . Call Achen . Achen feels uncomfortable, I just feel good. What are you used to calling me? Atang feels even more uncomfortable. You don’t usually call me that, tangtang , tangtang , right? Okay, hello, my name is Mo Xiaobei, change it. Don’t call me Mo Xiaobei , Xiaobei, call me Xiaobei. Okay, let’s warm up first, from one to eight , you can think of four numbers you like, one, two, six, seven Okay
, Ah Chen , 7713 , don’t choose four different ones , not a phone number. No, 7712571257. Can you remember it? Yes, he definitely can’t remember it . He will definitely change it to 1357. I am 2578. Okay, what is the Minions? 1267. What is your name? Impossible. He forgot what Lao Ji is. 125713572578. Okay, okay. Next, you choose a sound that you or something in the room can make. I think it’s okay. Okay, this one is loud . Okay, I have a magic wand. Friends, don’t mess with me. I’m a wizard now . What can you do without making a sound? It’s okay. I think it’s better to use sound. Are you? I am. Um, next I will leave time for you to really do this. In the first eight beats of the band , the Minions give the rhythm. In the second eight beats, they play together. In the third eight beats, Ah Chen gives the rhythm. Then you give the rhythm and the group plays together. You give the rhythm and the group plays together. Being able to complete this coherent musical work is the first task that everyone has completed . Okay, then come on , let’s fight it out. Okay, then why didn’t you pick up the phone? I came out. Lao Ji was lost. Slow down , slow down. Okay, let’s get ready again. You can’t listen to them. You can only think about one, two, three, four, five . You can’t listen. This is our warm-up game. The official game hasn’t started yet. Don’t make it so difficult. Did you feel anything in those few minutes just now ? You felt that the atmosphere became hot. Suddenly, four When people have a tacit understanding , they feel focused . Everyone will work hard towards one goal. Did you notice that in the past ten minutes, did you think about the troubles
in your current life ? No , no . You will find that we are very focused on the present. This is a very important point in psychological counseling and psychotherapy. We call it “emotional detachment” , that is, we will use some method to temporarily let our emotions leave those magnetic fields that seem to have been attracting us. When everyone is applaudingSubtitle_TEXT_0022, you will feel relaxed at this timeSubtitle_TEXT_0025I am a little anxious about something now . I suddenly found the happiness of life and a path to find happiness. But in this process, I found that sometimes I would ignore my main job, and then I became anxious about whether I should stick to my main job or do fishing, which makes me feel happier physically and mentally. What’s wrong with fishing? Everyone knows it. When I participated in the competition last year , my whole state changed. There was really no way to control the aftereffect after the competition. You couldn’t suppress it . So while I was fishing, I used my main job I was going to perform crosstalk in a theater with thousands of people. During the performance, all I could think about was fishing. Did you delay your work? Did the audience boo you? Did you want to refund your ticket? Did your master scold you? No , you did. You can’t say no, really no. In fact, there are two important criteria for us to evaluate whether it is a disorder and whether it needs intervention. The first is whether you are in pain. The second is whether it affects your social function. That is, can you do what you should do? If you can, then it is not a problem for you. If you say that it causes you anxiety, then you are a person who is prone to anxiety. It is very likely that this is the case. I just don’t know it. I’m going to teach you a simple method to quickly land anxious emotions . This method is called the “54321 Anxiety Landing Method.” You can touch the sofa, you can touch your clothes, you can touch your skin, you can smell yourself , and you can try to lick your palate with your tongue . 54321 is a feeling landing method , that is, we need to use our own real feelings to quickly withdraw ourselves from the previous letting Those things that I feel anxious about are really good. Okay , then let’s do the next game. Okay, now everyone, look, we have four horizontal and four vertical books in front of us, sixteen books , right? You are required to take away six of the remaining horizontal and vertical rows, or an even number, not considering the diagonal and diagonal lines. This hourglass is a one-minute timer. I will give you two minutes to think about it, and then you have to complete this challenge independently . It didn’t say that recording this program tests your brain. The timer starts. You must take away six books, right? You must take away six books. Subtitle_TEXT_0104 We have one minute. What does it mean to give you another minute to think ? Maybe I didn’t understand this rule. How can it be so few? I can only take away the four in the middle. That won’t work. My head is broken. The processor (stopped working). I know. Okay, the time is up, everyone turn around . Tang , you think you have thought it through, right? I don’t know if I’m right. Turn around. Now you have one minute to solve the problem. Look at this row . Sorry, you still have thirty seconds and ten seconds. You can’t stack two together. Subtitle_TEXT_0126 This book is well placed. It’s not neat. Let me straighten it out . You still have twenty seconds . It will look better if it’s a square. The time is up. Look at this row. Subtitle_TEXT_0136 Then look at this row . Look at this row. Put them all away first. Let’s do the next question. If you can’t solve it, it’s impossible. No matter how you take it, it’s impossible . How sure are you that it’s impossible ? It’s impossible . This is impossible. I just thought of Ah Chen. If you say it’s possible, can I punish you to do a plank ? How long can I punish you? Three minutes at a time. Impossible becomes impossible again. You are so cowardly . Can you do a plank for one minute for one second? Okay, then let’s move on to teamwork . At the same time, let’s change the question and do teamwork. Put four horizontal and four vertical lines in. The requirement is that the horizontal and vertical lines must be even numbers. Isn’t this the same as the previous question? If you put it out, can’t you solve that question? Turn the page in your mind, otherwise you won’t be able to solve it. This can be solved easily . How can four horizontal and four vertical lines be an even number for ten books ? I just thought of an idea . Subtitle_TEXT_0169 Try to put four horizontal and four vertical lines out. It’s impossible for ten books. It’s impossible. So let’s make it four. Subtitle_TEXT_0169 e_TEXT_0173Think about it, this won’t work. Is this okay ? Is this right? How is this possible ? Did I get it right? Look, no matter how you count, they are all even numbers, one, two , three , four . This one and two are right. One, two, three, four are right. One and two are right , right? Here , do a one- minute plank. Get ready. Subtitle_TEXT_0182No , it won’t work before the minute is up . It just started. This is the logic . Let’s take a look at the one just now. Let’s take this one and take this one . Right, right ? I just thought of it. This is the logic. How can this minute be so long? Okay , let’s do another question. I have already put it in and it cannot be moved. Put three books in there. The requirement is that they must be an even number horizontally and vertically. The three books must also be in an even number vertically. Subtitle_TEXT_0197 Okay, it’s almost there. Right, don’t move. Very good. Subtitle_TEXT_0200 It should be solved well. This one must be big, right? Put it here first. Put this one here too. That’s it. Okay , everyone, go back to your seats now. We solved a total of three problems today. Theoretically, these three problems are the same problem, but everyone feels that the difficulty is completely different. Which one do you think is the most difficult? Why is the first one ? I think it’s because I have too many thoughts in the first one , too many distractions. There are too many distractions. It is obviously sixteen minus six. The only valuable thing is ten books. But when we were doing the first question, we paid a lot of attention to things that are no longer your resources. Do you think zero plus ten is the easiest or seven plus three is the easiest? I think seven plus three . But have you ever thought that among these three questions, seven plus three is the most restrictive for you ? Subtitle_TEXT_0227 But for me , I think this is simple because the thing that cannot be moved is already your unchangeable foundation. Then add something on it. I think it may be simpler for my thinking . In fact, the final focus of all the psychological experiments we do is a projection , which is to project our own psychological state and our thinking mode. What about the Minions? The characteristic of this may be that you need rules. A sense of rules is very important to your life. Let me put it straight first. Subtitle_TEXT_0130 When you have rules to follow, you will feel safe and you will know how to do it step by step. I guess you are a person who particularly needs logic . When the logic is very clear and you follow it, you will feel very safe. Subtitle_TEXT_0249 Maybe this is very different from you . You should be a person who has a strong demand for freedom . A free state will be very easy for you and you have a sense of direction. This may also explain why your work is a kind of free creation and why your hobby is to interact with fish in nature. “Double kill” Maybe
your way of thinking and your mental state are very suitable for the pursuit and enjoyment of freedom . As for the two of us, I think the most outstanding thing is that you are a person who is very confident in yourself, otherwise it is impossible. After I set a rule of the game, you will say so firmly that it is impossible. It is impossible . It is impossible in the first place . You are too confident. The more confident the better . Teacher, when I encounter all problems, I will reflect on myself first. For example, if the staff makes a mistake or makes a big mistake, I will finally attribute the root (error) to myself. Are you a person who is accustomed to internal attribution, right ? If you have developed the habit of internal attribution, I think it may not only be caused by your experience as a host in the past few years, but also by the people around you since childhood. Your significant other requires you to do this , so you have internalized these standards since childhood. In fact, everyone has advantages and disadvantages. Xiaobei, when you get along with people around you, people around you may feel more comfortable and like you. Do you think you have any benefits in your career ? The disadvantages may be that you are more likely to consume yourself and then you are more likely to be dissatisfied with yourself. Each characteristic will have an impact and will also make us successful. Subtitle_TEXT_0297 If you are already reflecting on this issue, it means that you are not deeply involved. This is very well said and makes a lot of sense. When we realize that we are dreaming , we understand when we wake up. I have another question. ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder). Teacher, do you know? Do you have ADHD? I think I also have it. Do you have a bit of ADHD? It’s not obvious now. It’s cured. Maybe I think my attention span is a bit scattered and hard to control, right? Yes, it’s the same with reading . I used to like reading books and novels . I could read all night long, but now I can’t concentrate . I don’t know what’s wrong. Have you found that you can’t read from left to right and line by line when you read a book now ? And I think sometimes when I read a book, for example, I want to extract useful information at once. Do you watch short videos? Short videos are very harmful to attention, especially for those of us with children. We have to control them because I think it affects my acting. So I want to get rid of this state. I want to immerse myself in it. If you can’t control yourself now, you can use some external forces. Next time you watch short videos Then you have to force Xiaobei to watch it once. You just send Xiaobei 100 yuan. I think there is hope for getting rich. It depends on you. Teacher Ji, can you give me 50 yuan? I will give you 50 yuan to help us watch it together . If it is a small amount of money for you, you can also give 500 yuan. Then what do you give me? I will help you to be self-disciplined . Self-discipline gives you freedom, which is equivalent to me giving you freedom and private teaching, right? It will be a little better if you watch those slow movies. You have to force yourself to use this kind of linear reading. You have to train yourself to practice the kind that requires continuous thinking, such as playing chess . Thank you, teacher. I understand this. It turns out that after reaching adulthood, it will also regress. This attention will. Don’t you have it? I don’t watch short videos. I don’t have a good habit of watching them . They all say that I live in ancient times. I live in ancient times. Okay, thank you teacher today . Okay, thank you, teacher. Thank you , thank you, teacher . I’ll go back and study hard. Bye , teacher . Bye. Hello, hello . The barbecue I ordered has arrived, right? I’ll get it for you. It should be at the door. He said it has arrived. Hello, hello. There are quite a lot of things . Lao Ji is here to help . Which one can we get? Let’s go from here . We can go from here, right ? Right, directly in the yard. This small yard is so reliable. Do you want to grill it yourself? I know how to do it. There will be no problem. Come on , put it here . Okay. Okay, okay , authentic fusion of Leshan and Northeastern barbecue. People eat a lot of Leshan hotpot . People in the Northeast do eat a lot of barbecue . I think, then tell me what’s good about your Sichuan barbecue. It’s good that there are many varieties. Our Northeastern barbecue can also be eaten with cold noodles . Let’s compete. I’ll go first, you go. Professional. Your professional barbecue is so fragrant. Okay, take it away and put it on a plate. Okay, this one is okay . Let me try it first. Don’t rush. The second one is not bad. It’s delicious . Here I come . Okay , mine is definitely better than yours. Subtitle_TEXT_0099 Look at the color. Look, there’s too much salt. Teacher, it’s okay to add some sesame seeds. Sprinkle sesame seeds at the end. It ‘s not important. What you see is the feeling. Subtitle_TEXT_0104 What are you brushing now ? There’s too much oil . It’s on fire in a while. It’s going to catch fire in my expectation. Can’t burn it in the judgment . It’s okay if it’s black. I just want this. Don’t spray me . It’s black, right? It’s not black yet. I see black but it’s not black . I’m a little anxious. I’m a little anxious. Let’s call the psychiatrist back. Subtitle_TEXT_0115 Can you eat it? Yes, you can eat it. It’s absolutely amazing . Try it. The absolute best of the absolute . I dare not move the barbecue. I’m also me. Let’s take a look at it. The darker it is, the better it tastes. Yes, do you taste the difference? Wait a minute. This time (add ingredients). You are now Subtitle_TEXT_0136 It must be delicious. I’m looking forward to trying it. Occasionally try the burnt one. It’s okay. It’s still fragrant. It’s just that the burnt part is a little bitter. I pick and choose. I declare that Northeastern barbecue wins. It’s a bit exciting . What’s going on? Subtitle_TEXT_0151 gave it to “God of Cooking” You are the “God of Cooking”. Go, you grilled it dry. Subtitle_TEXT_0155 Actually, I seldom eat barbecue, but I really enjoyed it today. Thank you. This is the biggest encouragement to me. Subtitle_TEXT_0160 Next time you have barbecue, remember to ask me to come to Free Xianyu . I’m already on Xianyu. I just finished the psychology class today. Sister, what do you think? It’s pretty good. Including some games she talked about today. In addition to understanding yourself better, you also learned some methods, such as five, four, three, two, one. This five, four, three, two, one is quite useful for how to relieve some of the current anxiety. It’s all very practical and strong. In fact, there is a very good point today . When we are doing this book from more to less, most people will have some difficulties in their first reaction , that is, they don’t want to reduce what they already have from what they already have, but this is actually not in line with the changes in things, because you will always have more and less. You have to accept the process of reducing yourself before you can look forward to adding to it in the future. So this is also quite rewarding and relevant . Subtitle_TEXT_0186 Actually, you used to be a person who was not easy to do the letting go and making choices, right? Actually, I am not saying that I can do without letting go, but sometimes I am just not willing to touch it. It requires thinking. It requires thinking. You have to filter and think about which ones are not needed. In fact, this process may be more troublesome for me . So the moment you called us here, the change has already happened. Subtitle_TEXT_0200 Thank you for helping me to do this sorting. If you rank your family members yourself, I would have some changes in the previous stage. But at this stage, I only say that at this moment, I am actually more willing to put myself first. I like to hear this answer. I also put myself first. Is this certain ? It will be different at each stage and time. I am a giving personality. When you give, the feeling you get is also fed back to yourself . What you care about is the feedback, your own feelings and feedback . You are right. You are very clear about yourself. He is clear as the teacher said today, and now I immediately apply it. Clear is indeed why you want to serve . You serve because you want to get After others give you feedback, it is your enjoyment. It is really true. Also, if you give, you have it. Giving is actually a kind of gain. I think it is like this. You have attained the Tao . I often attain the Tao, and then I often have sudden realizations , and then I often forget. The main reason is that I fail in memory. Yes, I just got it and then I forgot how I got it. I really think my memory is not very good. It may be related to your last name. Is your last name Ji Lingchen? Just remember those things in the early morning. In the future, if I have a daughter, I will name her Ji Nian Ji Nian. Who has to say it is Ji Nian? Remember? The man’s name is Ji Zhu, okay ? Zhu Tie Zhu Zhu. What’s your last name? My last name is Ji Ji Zhu. Friends, whether you drink beer, beverages or mineral water, today we will treat it as a glass of fine wine. Let’s toast to the subtraction of life. Okay , it’s great. Then, like today we will Yes, I have seen that it is difficult to see ourselves clearly through addition, and it is even more difficult to subtract. But we must be brave enough to do subtraction. Yes, so today we must respect subtraction , respect the subtraction of our lives, respect the subtraction of life , and then each of us can do a good job of letting go. Okay , thank you,
cheers, cheers. Do you know where we are going today? Today we are going to Gillian Chung’s house. Hello , hello, its name is Kuma. It is so cute, just like a little raccoon. There is a cat here , it is called the younger brother, and it has an older brother . Let me introduce these dolls in my house. In fact, they are all in pairs. Subtitle_TEXT_0102 Because I am a gear party, I bought a lot of them . This is a fencing bag for fencing, and that is for horseback riding. Do you also play this gear party ? This one too? Those two chairs can also be made, and this two chairs can also be made. This lamp can also be made . Okay, this time it is enough, this can be perfect. There is also a game I want to play. We will distribute Gillian Chung’s three small Legos inside Chaoyang Park to see who can find it. I tell you, it is really hard to find. Magical friends are all here.